LOL, I'm with you, I don't want to know anyone else grisly details, either, haha. But yeah, I do not get it. My BFF and his partner have been together for over 7 years and living together for 6 1/2. Why can't they get married? How will that negatively impact my marriage, of the marriage of straight people anywhere? Ugh. They are considering getting a civil union since they are here in NJ. But it's not enough.
I'm praying that by the time my Kiddo is an adult, s/he'll be as confused as all get out that this was ever the case.