I think it's wrong to lie to these women. If someone is going to give up their child for adoption, it should be 100% the thing they feel is right to do. They shouldn't be tricked by promises of being able to at least keep in touch with the child only to find out later it was bullshit. I've also done some reading how the closed adoption method can damaging to adoptees. There's a lot of pain for people to learn that their biological mother wanted to keep in touch with them, but was lied to by their parents. And I know there are a lot of teens who aren't anywhere near ready to raise kids, or other women who are unfit for many reasons, but there's a lot of women who give up their kids cause they are poor, and that doesn't necessarily make them trash.
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Date: 2009-09-05 05:02 am (UTC)